There comes a time in your life when you say, or should I say, shout, 'Far out! Enough is enough!' 

 

We've all been there - trust me. It is during this turbulent time that we actually get our brain into gear and do something about it, whether it's voluntary or not! This is when we become resourceful and proactive, determined to make good of a bad situation OR we give in and claim defeat, play the victim, or worse blame everyone else around us and society for our lives going down the drain.

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One of those big wake-up calls was the demise of my marriage, because it had a profound effect on not only myself but my children, and for the first time in 16-years I was able to concentrate on rebuilding my self-worth and confidence.

 

Who am I ?... What legacy do I want to leave my children? ... Where do I start? ... What and who do I want to be? These were some of the questions crashing around in my head. I felt overwhelmed, alone, and unequipped.

 

So I took action by setting goals for myself both personally and professionally. I became more aware of my strengths, emotions, and those that were around me. I looked for opportunities to grow stronger mentally and physically. Finally, I put all my findings into an action plan that would set me up to succeed.